"Last week, you assigned this task to Dale, but you ended up doing it," I observed. I could tell Sondra was very pleased with the project result, but miffed that she spent the weekend working when Dale had all of last week to work on it.

"I thought about, what you said, being more explicit about my deadline. Next time, I will try to remember that," Sondra replied.

"More than that, the target completion time is essential to the task assignment. Dale gets all kinds of assignments. To complete them, he has to use his own discretion, primarily about pace and quality. Most of the decisions he makes are about pace and quality. Without a target completion time, he has no frame of reference in which to make his decisions. His ASAP will ALWAYS be different than your ASAP. ASAP is not a target completion time."

Sondra smiled. I took a look at her project. It was really very good. She will make her client meeting today and life will go on.

"The point of the vacation exercise is not to pretend that every week is the week before vacation, but to look at the difference between that week and any other week," I explained.

"That's good news, because if I worked as hard every week as I do the week before vacation, I would go nuts. It's bad enough the way it is. Almost makes going on vacation not worth the all the trouble," Marissa replied.

"So, what is different about that week from any other week," I asked.

"Well, I have to get more stuff done, so I just do whatever it takes. Some days I work longer, but mostly I prioritize and delegate. And you are right, some things simply become unimportant, so they don't get done at all."

"So, you have just learned about Parkinson's Law. Work expands (or contracts) to the time allotted."

How many hours a day do you sit in front of a computer, responding to email?

In my father's day, it was called correspondence. He would receive letters, reports in large brown envelopes and he would dictate his response to a secretary. The secretary would type the response and leave it in his INBOX for signature. This was correspondence.

And I am certain that my father blocked off a portion each day for correspondence.

That word, correspondence, has been lost, but the activity, albeit electronic, is likely to consume more of your day than in my father's day.

So, how many hours a day, do you sit in front of a computer, responding to email? And in those hours, what strategies do you use to be more efficient? What strategies do you use to be more effective?

"Great looking list," I commended. "So, how do you work it?" We had been talking about Marie's project list and her daily to-do lists.

Her brow furrowed. "I look at the list, and really, I just start working on whatever I think is easiest to get done right then. Or I try to pick off an A priority. But here's the rub. We just spent half an hour working on this list, and it's likely I won't even look at it again until next Tuesday. I don't use it to focus, I mean, I don't even look at it. And I don't know why. And then something falls through the cracks."

"What do you use to focus?" I asked.

"My calendar. I have a lot of meetings," she replied. "I live and die by my calendar. I look at it ten times a day."

"Then, stop making to-do lists," I challenged.

"But, I thought, as a manager, that I had to make to-do lists? It's one of those big Time Management ideas."

I smiled. "That's the trap everyone falls into. There are only about seven Time Management principles and the dirty little secret is that you cannot use them all, some principles won't work for you and you won't work some principles. So stop. Stop doing what doesn't work and stop feeling guilty about it."

"So, if to-do lists don't work for me, how do I keep things from falling through the cracks?"

"What do you use to focus?" I repeated.

"My calendar?"

"Then, everything goes into your calendar."

"Won't my calendar get kind of messy?"

"What does it matter? You look at it ten times a day. It's what helps you focus."

"You are actually suggesting that I don't prioritize?" Marie was having trouble with this.

"I know it sounds like heresy, but think about this. What is the biggest difference between an A priority and a C priority?" I nodded slowly.

Marie hesitated. "Well, it's either more important or it has to get done first."

"Good guess, but tell me, have you ever approached a deadline on a C priority and had to complete it before an A priority?"

"Sure, it happens all the time."

"Then what does that say about your priority system? And bottom line, it all has to get done sometime, just schedule it. If it doesn't have to get done, it shouldn't be on your list in the first place."

Marie was still trying to protest. "But, if I work hard all day and if something doesn't get done, at least it was the C priority."

"You are a manager. If there is something you can't get done, it should be assigned to someone else. At the end of the day, don't tell me something didn't get done because you ran out of time. It did not get done because you did not manage it correctly."